Loving someone who doesn't love you back. What do you do?

Answer 1

Never be harsh in your conversations, but do tell the truth. Feelings are a very complicated thing, at times, but it's far better to speak with honesty than to allow a person to believe a lie. You don't want to lead someone on by allowing them to believe that you feel what you don't. And, ultimately, in the end, you can know that you did the right thing. And, if possible, you can be friends, as long as they know where you stand. Never allow guilt to make your decisions for you because you will cetainly regret it further down the line. Just explain to the person that you don't have the feelings they do, and if you were to begin a relationship with them under those circumstances, it would not be what a relationship is meant to be. Let them know that you would be cheating yourself as well as them out of what is deserved if you were to take any further steps in that direction. Remember that we all deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, so don't malign who they are as a person while you're talking with them. Speak the truth in love.

Answer 2

that's pretty hard it's your choice and your decision to love who you want to love they can't make you love them and try telling the person you like if you are good friends you really never know

Answer 3

I have been in this situation quite a lot. Now when someone says they love you, they might first of all might be being over dramatic. The other thing is if they really love you they will except your decision that you do not love them. If you do not love them tell them that you want to be friends but nothing more. You don't feel that kind of a connection. If they respond wrong or try to hurt themselves, try to contact someone that can help.

Answer 4

If you are loving someone who doesn't love you back, you need to get out of the relationship and look for someone who will love you.