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Consider mediation. A mediator will help you and your wife work through issues that caused problems in the first place. Even if you do decide to divorce a mediated settlement will almost always be cheaper (and probably better) than litigation. Good mediators can usually achieve success even under extreme circumstances - child abuse, substance abuse or domestic violence.

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If you don't want your spouse to know that you want a divorce then you will go on with your life "wanting" a divorce and never actually getting one. As soon as a complaint for divorce is filed in the family court your spouse must be notified. How else do you think you can get divorced.

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