i tryed that, just stop talking to him, and then he'll come start talking to you again
I soo know what you're talking about. I've had that happen to me before. =( Just tell your friend that you like the same guy as her. When this happened to me, my friend and I agreed that the both of us won't ask him out or anything until one of us stops liking him.
If he stops talking to you don't worry about it. Never cry over a guy. If he doesn't like you then that means that he's not good enough for you. Never settle for less.
This my friend is called: flirting.
Try to tell your friend that you like her brother. This should be done gently in a way that might limit surprise. Tell the brother that you like him. Honesty is best, both in talking to your friend and her brother.
When he stops talking to you/looking at you
Just sit him down and tell him how you feel and if he loves you he will take it in and stop talking to his ex.
You can tell if he is focusing on you. Yes your friend is talking but if his attention is on you, he wants you to talk and speak up. You could also ask your friend to be quiet when it is just you two.
ask him why he's not talking to you and if that doesnt work tell him how you feel.
He totally likes you, but he doesnt know what to do, like.. he doesnt know if you like him, he doesnt know if he should tell his girlfriend he likes someone else.. I can go on and on.. If you like him, tell him, he totally likes you.
Tell her how you feel. if she says that they dont care than they obviosly dont care about your fellings so why bother talking to them
I can't tell you why your friend was talking behind your back but I can tell you that real friends don't talk behind their friend's back. You should let your friend know how you feel about this and that it is an act of betrayal.
You need to tell your boyfriend how you feel. That you don't like how his friend shows up on all your dates. If he really likes you he will tell his friend to back of a little bit.