an abusive boyfriend is the worst thing that can happen to a lady. if u have an abusive boyfriend the it's best u terminate the relationship. as long as ur not married the he doesn't own u. and if u stick with him and he continues abusing ur friends then they will leave u.
It depends what you do with your guy freinds and if you do the samething with your boyfriend.
Unfortunately you have to simply tell him you have a boyfriend and are not interested in him that way.
Ask him to only touch you when you are alone to avoid upsetting your friends.
Some of your former friends will side with your ex boyfriend, but some won't and you will just have to wait to find out who accepts you as a friend and who doesn't. You have the opportunity at this time to also make new friends.
Talk to your friends. Tell them straight out how you feel about how theyre treating your boyfriend, if they're flirting with him? Tell them that you and him have something going on, and you dont want them to ruin what you have. Take a stand! Also speak to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel about what your friends are doing, see how he feels about you talking to them.
Your boyfriend can't decide who your friends are and who aren't. That's unfair and controlling.Maybe talk to him?
tell him that if he cant handle you being around other boys then that's it!
That is a matter of his personal choice and it also depends on whether or not his X wants to remain friends.
I don't know. I dated a guy who was very, very subtly abusive. The mind-games he played with me were endless. But yes, this guy was also very popular and had lots and lots of friends. I think that what happens is that abusive people act differently towards their partners than they act towards their friends, so their friends aren't actually "seeing" that side of him (or her). Second answer: Abusive people, particularly men, have a charming public side and a women hating/raging side used at home. They are controllers. They play this one up and one down game at home to make themselves feel superior. Many have terrible self esteems deep down inside or they learned the behavior from their father or male role model. They can be gregarious, friendly people and attract many friends while maintaining a secret they don't want their friends to know. Also, abuser's friends are not real friends as they do not know who he is for real.
Yes, I know that Britney Spears is one of hers and she also has a boyfriend. She has tons of friends! Everyone does! I'm pretty sure she does.
You can try to be friends with him, because guys are also effected greatly by hurt. After friendship you may be able to have your boyfriend back.
Well most people pull away from their friends when they meet someone and fall in love. It can last for quite awhile and sometimes you need to remind them of that the friends exist. If the boyfriend does not like her friends and tries to stop her from seeing them it is abusive but it's also her choice to whether she should listen to her or not. be patient and be there when she comes back. She will most likely feel a bit guilty then but it will probably be your turn next. See if you can make plans with her alone and have dinner or something and tell her how you miss what you used to have and that you miss hanging out just the 2 of you. it can of course also be that you 2 have outgrown each other. If you are in your teens, that is not uncommon.