Tell your friend that you are not comfortable during those visits and talk together on where you two can spend time as friends instead. Maybe a meet at a bench in the park.
Well you can visit and offer some friendly advice. Visiting is way of showing love.
No. That would make you look cheesy. If your friend insists then go ahead. Otherwise, leave it alone.No. That would make you look cheesy. If your friend insists then go ahead. Otherwise, leave it alone.No. That would make you look cheesy. If your friend insists then go ahead. Otherwise, leave it alone.No. That would make you look cheesy. If your friend insists then go ahead. Otherwise, leave it alone.
A - How do you know they are narcissist? B - Why do you assume that the friend doesn't already know? C - Why do you think they might want to know? D - Is it any of your concern? If you can satisfactorily (and honestly) answer those questions then yes, tell the friend, otherwise leave the matter lie.
They need to satisfy their sense of control. For instance, if you "dare" have another friend (other then the narcissist) then, he will be a better friend then you are to that friend. All of it is to escalate self importance and minimize the value of your friendship. Narcissists hate authentic relationships (because they've never had one) but are very good at mimicking them for the purpose of pretense and control of one's (anyone's) emotions.
The friend that your visting, because your at their house.
Politely tell her that you will not be giving her a ride.
Kevin Bob and Stuart This comes from my friend oscar, who insists you stay gruvey
Because he is a callous and uncaring narcissist. Forget about him and find a decent person.
A narcissist doesn't care about anyone other than themselves. When this person is finished with one person, that person no longer matters. They move on and it doesn't matter with whom (friend or someone you don't even know).
It depends. Why are you visiting them for? The answers are numerous.GOOD LUCK!
ABSTINENCE!
Police don't get infected by narcissism! There is probably not enough evidence and if you are reporting this person as an abuser to you, then often the person reporting it to the police is too afraid to charge the abuser. There is not much the police can do unless the person charging will help the police as much as they can. If you live in a county or small town where the person should be arrested, but never is, it's best to go into another town or county and form your complaint. Good luck Marcy Ask to see someone else. They may have got to one or more officers but they haven't got to them all. Be strong and have them charged, it will stop them. Narcissists don't like sitting in cells alone eh. If your narcissist physically abuses you and you end up with bruises, split lip or cuts, then have a friend take pictures of you at home with the date on the picture and then have her take you to the police and have them take pictures of these injuries. Even at this it has to be proven that the narcissist was the one that inflicted the injuries. There is a smarter way to deal with this .... go to a friends house and phone your local "Abused Women's Center" or your local "Mental Health" and they will put you in the right direction. If you live in a very small town and feel unsafe doing this get your friend to drive you to the next largest town available. Be prepared to stay! Abused Women's Centers will take you in (put you into a "Transition House" also called a "Safe Place") give you counseling and also send a counselor to court with you should you want to charge your abuser. No one knows where the "Safe Place" is so it's doubtful your abuser will find you. Be careful who you talk too about this and choose one trusted friend! Good luck!