What is a Narcissist's reaction when you know he has been cruel to you and taken up with other Supply so you abruptly cut off communication and refuse to talk to him privately?
If he's been cruel and taken up with other NS..... that doesn't necessarily mean he's not still dependant on you for NS. Especially if you're his Secondary (stable)NS. If you are part of his Narcissistic Space.... He may get very resentful and feel slighted... as in "HOW DARE YOU DENY ME!" They can rage and threaten in a manner that takes your breath away..... literally. He may get charming and do whatever it takes to get you to give in. Once you do..... he may get bored and cruel again or he may just cool off and go back to his old self. It depends on how much he needs you and if he has enough NS from other sources. On the other hand.... if he truly believes you're done with him.... .or he no longer needs you.... it will be like you're dead to him and you can expect him to come around only when his other supplies start petering out. Tremusan Tremusan, I have a question...I dumped my N. and just realized he has since blocked me on AIM when I do not even contact him! My friends and family all believe this is because he wants me to realize and confront him so he can get the "ball in motion"..what do you think? I agree with your friends and family. N's are nuts. They want to make it seem like THEY are the ones that have the upper hand but everything they do is to get a reaction. If you want to make him squirm....don't contact him. I'm not contacting mine and I'm sure he is going crazy !