What is going on if you are 37 and your boyfriend is 50 and he wants sex only once a week and you are sure he is not cheating but just has a low sex drive and is boring in bed?

Answer 1

* He may have a sex drive, but doesn't like to do it anymore because he has problems with premature ejaculation or achieving and maintaining an erection. Have him talk to his doctor and he may be able to get help there. IF that's his problem, re-gaining control may help. == == * It's hard to say. There is a possibility that he might be cheating, but it's hard to tell just by how he acts in sex. Some men at that age just aren't as sexually active as they were when they were younger. == == * The truth of the matter is, you are young, vibrant, full of energy and as a person gets older they slow down a little or a lot and sometimes medication or diseases such as Diabetes can cause low libido. You have to decide if you really love this person or not because it's not going to get any better. If you have to ask this question then it's not love! * I'm a 52 years old black man and I have a very high sex drive! I have sex with my 48 year old girlfriend regularly and stillhave to masturbate in order to feel content. Age doesn't have anything to do with it. Perhaps diet and exercise do; both of which I'm conscious of in my lifestyle. He's a lucky man to have a hot 37 year old. Hey, try spicing it up a little! Dirty pillow talk,sexy lingerie, stiletto heels in bed and you can always role-play! Find out what turns him on (fetishes included) and employ it in the bedroom.