What is his ex up to when she asks him out on his birthday even though he has a new girlfriend who she knows would be the first person he would spend his birthday with?

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Usually when you split-up from a boyfriend or even a spouse, you don't spend their birthday with him. Most smart people move on and try to learn from the past. She is obviously trying to reel him in, in hopes he will be interested in her again. This should not even be a problem in your relationship, so if your boyfriend doesn't say no to her, then you tell him to keep walking! Whether you are dating or married you owe each other honesty and respect. Good luck Marcy Or they are just friends? And who he spends his birthday with is HIS choice...It's not wrong of her to present an option. It is wrong if she is saying she has no ill intentions and does not want to cause problems and wants to be "both" our friends. Why would you assume that someone wouldn't want to spend their significant other's Bday with them and that there would be the possibility that they would rather spend with you unless you don't have common sense or your self centered or you think that you are more "important" to that person than their significant other? Why would you suggest an activity that only the two of you could do? His ex is up to this:she wants him back and she thinks his birthday is the best day to do so..she probably knows more about him and will plan the whole just the way he wishes however he SHOULD say NO to her if he is into his new girlfriend...