If you are talking about Masturbating then, * Masturbating is where a guy or a girl pretend to have sex, for a guy this would mean making a circle with their fingers and placing it around the penis and rubbing it up and down, for a girl it would be rubbing their vagina or placing one finger or something that replicates a penis like shape and putting it up their vanginal region. * Masturbating is sometimes a weekly thing but doesn't have to be done, some people can go with out masturbating and then some people just have to masturbate for sexual release.