The book skips some age groups (5, and 6). The author describes the ceremonies and the reasoning behind them and includes page numbers for reference:
Age 1 Assigned to Family Unit and given name because the baby can't stay in the Nurturing Center forever (42).
Age 2 The children are introduced to the discipline wand.
Age 3 Only females get hair ribbons because they start growing hair in different ways, and they all need to look the same. Start dream-sharing, because at age three most babies can talk (35).
Age 4 Backward-buttoned jackets are given out to teach the kids interdependence (40).
Age 7 Front-buttoned jackets are given out to learn independence; also the first visible symbol of maturity (40-1).
Age 8 Comfort objects are taken away because the kids need to learn to not be so childish. They start volunteer hours because the kids are mature enough to help out other people. Jacket with pockets and smaller buttons because the kids need to carry around more things (45).
Age 9 Get a bike because kids can't always count on their parents to take them places and it would be "The powerful emblem of moving gradually out into the community, away from the protective family unit" (41). Females get hair ribbons taken out as a sign of maturity (13).
Age 10 Boys get hair cut. Girls get pigtails taken out, and they get a haircut; this also is another sign of maturity (46).
Age 11 Girls get new undergarments because their bodies will start maturing faster. Boys get longer pants because they also will start maturing.
Age 12 Receive life assignment and start training for job (15).
Full adulthood: Apply for spouse (marriage). Apply for children (13) (Optional).
The ceremony of release.
In The Giver, the Ceremony of 2 is when infants born within the same year are assigned to their families. The number represents the age of the child, indicating that they are now two years old. At this ceremony, the children are given to their designated families, marking the beginning of their upbringing in the community.
OMG I'm reading that right now. i don't remember there being one. But i remember Lily saying that there are ceremonys for 4,5, and sixes
The ceremony of 12 is when all the 12 year olds get their assignments.
They never say. In the ceremony of two, twos become threes. They don't say the special new "thing" they receive.
They get a jacket with buttons down the front. (:
The book does not tell what happens at the ceremony of 6, or what they receive.
The kids get button-down jackets.
nothing
they get a jacket
introduced to the discipline wand
The Ceremony in "The Giver" occurred in the month of December.
The very last ceremony celebrated in the community in "The Giver" is the Ceremony of Release.
At age 2, children are old enough to be whipped.
They get new clothing
you get your bike
A haircut
Somebody dies and this is a ceremony to commemorate the persons life
The Ones receive their names and family at the Ceremony of the Ones.
They receive their first Bicycle.
she recieved a dream
In the book, "The Giver", by Lois Lowry, the ones receive their names and their family units at the Age ceremony because they are old enough to leave the nurturing center.