Since each state has its own laws governing such an action, it is hard to say without knowing where you live. There is however nothing quick about the process. Judges are not that open to letting either parent just "quit". Unless there is clear evidence that the parent is unfit, as in a convicted felon, chemical abuser, obviously child molester/abuser, etc... As far as expense, there are organizations that might help with the process and charge what you can afford. Most Family Law attorneys offer free consultations.
With the approval of the court
No. There is no requirement for the child to have to "know" the father for him to give up his parental rights.
Her biological father must give up his parental rights and consent to the adoption. You should consult with an attorney who specializes in adoption.Her biological father must give up his parental rights and consent to the adoption. You should consult with an attorney who specializes in adoption.Her biological father must give up his parental rights and consent to the adoption. You should consult with an attorney who specializes in adoption.Her biological father must give up his parental rights and consent to the adoption. You should consult with an attorney who specializes in adoption.
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No, he is just their leader and parental figure.
Yes, if a court terminates the biological father's parental rights on the grounds that he is an unfit parent, or the biological father fails to appear for hearings on the matter.
The biological father have to give up his parental rights in order for you to adopt.
A DNA test can prove if the biological father is actually the father. If it is proven he is the father, then he should have all parental rights as any other parent.
Get a lawyer. You have a couple of ways to assert your parental rights.
No, it's clear he is not the father and therefor have no parental rights, he is the step dad. Only the biological parents pay.
yes
If the biological father relinquishes his parental rights and the court agrees and allows the adoption to proceed.