father has 2 week visit for xmas...child admits to father that mother kisses his penis to make him feel better. also she breast fed him until he was almost 5 yrs old. now she askes him to kiss them for her. father is concerned about molestation and steps to take. is the child representing signs of molestation now?
If you are the mother the child probably needs to spend more time with you. The child needs to identify and learn that you are the mother of the child. If the nanny is who the child spends most of her time with it is natural that she would be attached to the nanny. You might want to try spending time alone with your child and have a regular schedule for the nanny to be gone so that the child recognizes that, at the end of the day, mommy is the one who will always be there and is the parent.
Unless the child is technically a bastard, yes it is wrong. Even if the child is technically a bastard, it is immoral and un-Christian to apply the label. Understand that bastardy means that a child is born of an unwed mother. This used to connote a loss of legal rights to the child, but not to the mother. The object of the loss of these rights was to permanently punish the child for the mother's sin of fornication and for not being married on the day of the child's birth. It is immoral and un-Christian to blame a child for the sins of their parent.
Leave without a babysitter would be wrong but not if you have to leave to work or take care of a sick relative etc and leave the child with someone trustworthy.
Yes. Call child services or police NOW.
50% chance of A. 50% chance of B. either positive or negative(shruggs). If the child is AB the mother screwed around on the 'dad' If the child is O you did the test wrong, because their is no way the woman can be wrong about whether or not the baby came out of her
It depends, are you divorced from her. If you are, the answer is no if you are planning on staying there. However, if you are just visiting the state, then there should be no problem. If you and the mother have not ever been married, then there is nothing wrong with you taking the child.
Yes, this is possible if the child hasn't been adopted. or the mother could destroy everything the child has known and regain custody after they are adopted. This would be a very wrong act and it is not recommended.
It depends on the exact circumstances, but absent any clear danger from them, yes, it probably is wrong.
Something is wrong. Automatically, it would be best to allow the mother to visit somewhere near you where she can be watched. Also, if the boyfriend has done any wrong to the child, it should be investigated and reported. Children sometimes know things that they are afraid to talk about. Keep the child away from the boyfriend. If the mother refuses to see her child without her boyfriend, then you cannot allow the child to visit their mother. Think of the safety of the child before making any hasty decisions.
If it is exhibiting this behaviour, it is because it does not feel secure, think about your life and how you treat the child or ask others who know you to suggest where you are going wrong.
The Wrong Child was created in 1988.
It doesn't matter if the woman being called Mommy isn't the girls real mother, what is important is that the child is comfortable with this person enough to call her mommy. It depends, if the child is adopted then yes, if you are her mom and the child is calling someone else mommy, keep an eye on them