okonkwo basically don't want to turn out like his father which is a lazy person and owed everyone in the village money but before he died unoka (okonkwo's father) tells okonkwo that its OK to fail which makes okonkwo act all hard and wouldn't show any affection for that is a sign of weakness, so his oldest son nwoye(he's only 12)which okonkwo sees some laziness in him and start beating him up so he could become a better person-strong,manly guy,later on the village gives a virgin girl and a boy to stop umofia(they're city) to go to war with its next door city's.the boy stays with okonkwo(his name is ikemefuna) no one knew it would be as long as 3 years,then the village decided that ikemefuna must be killed because he end up calling okonkwo father,which later on becomes a problem,so this old guy (the oldest guy in the village) came to okonkwo's house and told him that he must be the sacrifice and he also told okonkwo he doesnt need to be part of this so he goes with them and the man with him were about to kill ikemefuna when he runs to okonkwo and tells him what the man were trying to do so he takes his knife and kills him so he wont look weak in front of the others.
all this story is about that okonkwo wants to make everyone thinks hes strong and no weak like his father,this is all I've read it,there is still parts to it,if your really intersted in reading it go and get it or you can go to the sparknotes-you put things fall apart sparknotes and your there,it will give you everything that happend there in great detail,if your the kind of person that likes to know what excatly happens in a book,since most people don't do.
but i don't think you should let any one annoys you by letting them get the best of you,believe it or not,im known as to be the meaniest girl in school,but i still enjoy books even though somebody get on my never-i give great advices that i cant follow but you! XD
Okonkwo no longer believes in the proverb "A man is judged by the strength of his chi," which reflects the belief in personal fate and success. His transformation is driven by his experiences, particularly his exile and the loss of his status, leading him to feel that external circumstances and societal changes have more power over his life than his personal strength or determination. This disillusionment highlights his internal conflict and the broader themes of change and identity in the face of colonial influence.
Uchendu calls Okonkwo a child to highlight his lack of understanding and immaturity in handling his emotions and decisions. Uchendu believes that Okonkwo is acting out of fear and stubbornness, rather than wisdom and rationality. By calling him a child, Uchendu emphasizes Okonkwo's need for growth and introspection.
Okonkwo is anxious about Nwoye because he sees him as weak and effeminate, unlike what he believes a son should be. Okonkwo wants Nwoye to embody the masculine values of strength, aggression, and success, which causes tension in their relationship.
Okonkwo is a very stern father who shows affection through pride. He believes that being hard on his children will force them to grow up hard.
Okonkwo wishes that Ezinma was a boy because he sees her as having the spirit and strength that he values in masculinity. He believes that if she were a boy, she would have been the perfect heir to carry on his legacy and continue the family lineage.
Okonkwo does not enjoy feasts because he views them as a waste of time and resources. He believes that feasting is frivolous and goes against his strong work ethic and desire for success. Additionally, Okonkwo associates feasting with laziness and weakness, traits that he fears and rejects.
Okonkwo refuses to acknowledge the "feminine" virtues of compassion, empathy, and gentleness because he associates them with weakness. He values aggression, dominance, and strength, believing these traits are necessary to achieve success and respect in his society. By rejecting the importance of the feminine virtues, Okonkwo creates inner conflict and contributes to his eventual downfall.
Okonkwo views society as a place that values strength, hard work, and traditional masculinity. He believes in upholding the cultural norms and expectations of his community, including the importance of honor and respect. Okonkwo sees any form of weakness or deviation from these values as a threat to the stability and order of society.
'Contented cat' is not a proverb. Proverbs are longer than two words eg A stitch in time saves nine.
Uchendu gathers his children and Okonwko for a meeting and tells Okonkwo of his duty to not let despair break his spirit. He says Okonkwo must be comforted by his motherland, not despondent. Uchendu finally speaks of his own suffering and his wives' suffering, showing Okonkwo that life goes on despite one's suffering.
Okonkwo disowns Nwoye after he joins the Christians, claiming Nwoye is no longer his son, no longer his children's brother. Okonkwo tells his children, "You have all seen the abomination of your brother."
Okonkwo wishes that they could kill the white men and their messengers, driving them from the land. However, Okonkwo initially agrees to talk to the Commissioner when he summons the leaders of Umuofia to talk. After being tricked, Okonkwo resumes his position of wanting to kill the white men.