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Okonkwo is a very stern father who shows affection through pride. He believes that being hard on his children will force them to grow up hard.

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What is Okonkwo's relationship with Ikemefuna like?

Okonkwo becomes a father to Ikemefuna, and Ikemefuna calls Okonkwo father. Ikemefuna is like the second man in the house, the closest to Okonkwo's personality, and helps to develop Nwoye's manhood. Okonkwo likes Ikemefuna, but does not show his feelings towards Ikemefuna because to do so would be unmanly.


What incident in this chapter makes clear that Okonkwo's children respect Ikemefuna?

When Ikemefuna falls ill and Okonkwo's daughter Ezinma brings food and medicine to him, it shows that Okonkwo's children respect Ikemefuna because they care for his well-being. They see him as a member of the family and show empathy and kindness towards him in his time of need.


Why did Okonkwo kill Ikemefuna?

The oracle concluded that Ikemefuma must die. Okonkwo kills Ikemefuma to show his peers that he is not weak. It is ironic that Ikemefuna is, besides Okonkwo, the most manly man in his family.


What decision did okonkwo make?

Okonkwo made the decision to kill Ikemefuna, despite his internal struggle and conflicting emotions, because he felt pressured to show his masculinity and maintain his reputation as a strong warrior. This decision ultimately led to feelings of guilt and remorse, contributing to his downfall later in the story.


What did okonkwo tell himself about his part in Ikemefuma's death?

Okonkwo justified his part in Ikemefuna's death by telling himself that he needed to appear strong and not be seen as weak or feminine. He believed that showing any form of sentimentality or weakness would be a sign of weakness and would undermine his reputation as a powerful and respected leader in the community. This internal conflict reflects Okonkwo's deep-seated fear of failure and his desire to uphold traditional masculine values in his society.


What is one thing that Okonkwo did to show his culture?

Okonkwo wrestled. Okonkwo fought in wars.


What are some quotes that show okonkwo is a man?

"Okonkwo was a man." "Did you see that man, Okonkwo?" "You are my son. Okonkwo, I am your father!"


Why do you think Okonkwo is so reluctant to show anyone including Ikemefuna and Nwoye any noticeable affection?

Okonkwo's reluctance to show affection is due to his belief that showing emotion is a sign of weakness. He has been ingrained with the idea that masculinity is associated with being strong and powerful, so he refrains from displaying any signs of vulnerability, even towards his own family. This is also influenced by his fear of being like his father, who he views as weak.


Why Okonkwo never showed emotions in things fall apart?

Okonkwo's inability to show emotions was largely a result of his fear of being seen as weak, stemming from his father's reputation as a failure. He believed that displaying emotions would be a sign of weakness and would undermine his status as a respected warrior and leader in the community. This fear drove him to exhibit a tough, stoic exterior even in challenging situations.


Why do Okonkwo's neighbors believe that he isn't really sorry about the blasphemy he committed?

Okonkwo is prideful and not the type to be outwardly repentant, making a show of it.


What proverb does okonkwo no longer believes?

okonkwo basically don't want to turn out like his father which is a lazy person and owed everyone in the village money but before he died unoka (okonkwo's father) tells okonkwo that its OK to fail which makes okonkwo act all hard and wouldn't show any affection for that is a sign of weakness, so his oldest son nwoye(he's only 12)which okonkwo sees some laziness in him and start beating him up so he could become a better person-strong,manly guy,later on the village gives a virgin girl and a boy to stop umofia(they're city) to go to war with its next door city's.the boy stays with okonkwo(his name is ikemefuna) no one knew it would be as long as 3 years,then the village decided that ikemefuna must be killed because he end up calling okonkwo father,which later on becomes a problem,so this old guy (the oldest guy in the village) came to okonkwo's house and told him that he must be the sacrifice and he also told okonkwo he doesnt need to be part of this so he goes with them and the man with him were about to kill ikemefuna when he runs to okonkwo and tells him what the man were trying to do so he takes his knife and kills him so he wont look weak in front of the others. all this story is about that okonkwo wants to make everyone thinks hes strong and no weak like his father,this is all I've read it,there is still parts to it,if your really intersted in reading it go and get it or you can go to the sparknotes-you put things fall apart sparknotes and your there,it will give you everything that happend there in great detail,if your the kind of person that likes to know what excatly happens in a book,since most people don't do. but i don't think you should let any one annoys you by letting them get the best of you,believe it or not,im known as to be the meaniest girl in school,but i still enjoy books even though somebody get on my never-i give great advices that i cant follow but you! XD


What are some reasons okonkwo committed suicide in Things Fall Apart?

There are numerous things that cause Okonkwo's downfall, depending on one's viewpoint and beliefs. Overall, Okonkwo's fear of being weak, of being like his father or thought of this way, leads to his downfall. This causes him to constantly wish to project a strong solid image and never be weak. Okonkwo is rash, and intemperate, which may have caused him to offend the gods, who might have correspondingly punished him.On several occasions might Okonkwo have offended the gods:1. Beating Ojiugo during the week of peace. Okonkwo's temper causes him to beat his wife during the week of peace, and not to stop even when told of this. Due to his pride, Okonkwo did not show much outward remorse, even though he was repentant inside.2. Killing Ikemefuna. Okonkwo's pride causes him to go on the death march with Ikemefuna, and his fear of being thought weak causes him to strike the killing blow, instead of letting someone else do it. His rashness creates an action in which he might offend the gods.It may also be supposed that Okonkwo nearly killing Ekwefi with his gun, causes Chielo, her good friend, to pronounce that Ikemefuna must die, although this is not explicit in the book, nor is there conclusive evidence to support this theory.His accident with his gun killing Ekeudu's son is another contributing factor. This forces him into exile. In some way, since Okonkwo did not follow Ekeudu's advice to not lay a hand in Ikemefuna's death, it may be seen as Ekeudu's spirit cursing Okonkwo after death.The fact that Okonkwo's father was not buried properly, but left to die in the Evil Forest might lead some to believe that his father's spirit haunted Okonkwo, perhaps to the point of influencing Nwoye, Okonkwo's eldest son. Nwoye's effeminate nature can be partially blamed for Okonkwo's downfall. However, though it might also be blamed on having inherited Unoka's genes, it is also blamed on Okonwko's fiery nature, molding Nwoye into a sad faced youth through the many beatings.The European colonials arriving in Nigeria are also partially to blame. Okonkwo's exile leads him to be unable to defend Umuofia from the church, until it is too late. The tribesmen are relatively honourable, and foolishly trust the Commissioner who tricks and imprisons them.Finally, with the encounter with the messengers, several things can be blamed for the failure of this encounter. 1. The villagers were not yet ready to go to action, and were weaker than Okonkwo's ideal. 2. The villagers let the messenger's escape, dooming Okonkwo.Okonkwo killing himself is merely the final act to his downfall.In a grand sense, the weakness of the tribe as a whole and it's inability to speak as one voice leads to the tribe falling apart, and Okonkwo's downfall. Ironically, the very customs of the tribe itself, which separated itself, give the colonialists a wedge to drive between the people.