What should I do after catching Wife kissing another man?

Answer 1

Take her out to a nice low-lit restuarant where you do not have to be in a hurry. Have some pleasant time together, and then gently bring up the idea of marriage counseling, in order to have a better marriage. If she agrees to it, have it all come out in the open there. If not, gently say that you have some concerns that are very serious and you feel professional intervention is in order. (And that you love her and want to work everything out.) If she still does not think counseling is needed, then you need to bring up what you thought you saw, and listen to what she has to say. After you have listened without interupting, then you should suggest counseling again. If she refuses, then you should tell her that you will give her some time to think about it, and that you, in the meantime, will get counseling yourself. When you let her talk, her needs will be manifested. That is where the healing starts. Without judgment, which is very difficult, and takes self control, you need to let her know that her needs are very important to you.