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What should you do if you're 40 and your wife is 45 and she has a daughter from a previous marriage but you don't feel your life will be complete unless you have a child of your own?
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∙ 19y ago
I certainly can understand your feelings, but at 45 it's a little late in life for your wife to have another baby. This is something you should be discussing with her. If she agreed you could see a specialist before she gets pregnant and understand any risks to mother and baby. A child is a child whether you are part of the birth process or not. You could consider a surrogate mother (meaning your sperm would be placed into another woman to give birth to your child ... but, also it has her genes as well, so you wife may not feel comfortable with this.) Usually a contract is drawn up with the surrogate mother with the understanding she has all medical bills paid for and that you can even be there at the birth of the baby. This, of course has to be done with a lawyer. Secondly, there is nothing wrong with adopting a wee babe and you would get just as great a joy as if it were your own. My husband and I were never blessed with children, but we have wonderful nephews, a niece and two Goddaughters that we have thankfully been part of their lives and had wonderful times with them. We never missed a darn thing! We had it all! We enjoyed those kids so much. It's a matter of the way you look at things. Don't be afraid to sit with your wife and discuss what is in your heart about children and please, don't tell her you went on a board to ask this question or you may hurt her. When you marry you are not only lovers, but best friends, so you should feel like you can ask her anything. Although she may be hurt a little she will certainly understand. You both can work this out together. Good Luck Marcy
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Can you get married in a Catholic church of you were married before?
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