Communicate!!! Talk to him about it and express your desire to get married and hear what he has to say and if getting married is that important to you be prepared to give him an ultimatum and stand your ground.
your history... you are not what he wants.
No, but she has been dating the same guy (Paul) for over six years
Well my guess is that since she was drunk there might have been more. Were you with her? If not how long was she gone?
Well my boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and we just got engaged but my aunt and uncle waited til they had been dating 5 years and there still going strong it depends on the couple some can only date for 2 years and get engaged and be married for many years which is how I hope my boyfriend and I will be but some ppl need more time to get to know each other
Get your mind off of the other guy, stay with the guy you have been with for all those years, because if you dump him now, he will never, ever forgive you. If the guy you have been with for all those years has been mean for all those years, dump him; you don't need that torture anymore, if he keeps harassing you after that, get a restraining order, or call the cops for the harassment; he deserves it. Try to see the good things in your relationship and do not think of the other guy while you are thinking about these or things WILL get messy.
she is engaged to a guy that uses drugs to abuse her.
Well......Sorry if he is engaged then you can't really impress him. If you want him to like you I'm sorry you should probably move on sorry but it is true. You should look for a guy who isn't in a relationship let alone engaged or married. :)
NO!
no its only 2 years apart
At this point you should let it go. Especially if she left you for him.
Yes you should run.
Whether or not it is appropriate for a guy to text other girls when he has been in a relationship for three years should depend on the parameters of his relationship. Each relationship is different, and it is up to the couple to agree on what is or is not appropriate in their relationship.