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  • Your problem is you are too forgiving. People are human and can make a mistake and one of those mistakes may be cheating, but if they truly love you they will apologize and feel remorse and learn from their mistake so they will never hurt you again by cheating. They would know instinctively that they would need to gain your trust back. You are too forgiving to the point of being an enabler of your partner's constant cheating and you ask nothing of them in return such as to try in your relationship so they simply go their merry way and continue to cheat over and over again because they do not respect themselves or you; they know that you will always take them back. You are in total control of this situation and you should lay it on the line and ask that they get help such as marriage counseling (if you are married) or, see a psychologist and either one with give you both tools to deal with the constant cheating and also how to build a stronger relationship. If your partner does not want to do this then you should be mature and independent enough to know you can do well enough on your own; that you do not need a man in your life all the time and that other men will be attracted to you and by freeing yourself up by getting out with friends and back out into society you will eventually meet the person you should really be with. Women are smart when they go for their independence and when they realize they can still have a good quality of life without a man in their life that is a time when they will know whomever they choose to share their life with; the end result is a much stronger relationship.
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Q: What should you do if you get cheated on so many times and forgive them to try and make the relationship work and gain trust?
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