That is the worst thing a person could do ... break trust in a relationship. If he hasn't been giving you any problems since, then he could have simply made a mistake (we all do) and you have to ask yourself if he's worth the risk. Only you know thing young man and only you can decide if he's worth forgiving. Dump him. Once a cheater most times always a cheater. If you want to take that chance it is totally up to you though. Why did he cheat?
No, he/she is not a good boyfriend/girlfriend. Leave him/her and wait for him/her to come crawling back!
That is more of a personal decision you need to make based on your relationship and if you can recover the trust that was broken when he cheated.
yes you should tell him. there is no getting around that. the guilt will eat you up inside. and if you cheated most likely it's because something wasn't right in the relationship. your boyfriend deserves to know so that you two can go separate ways. it's not healthy to be in a relationship where you feel the need to cheat and your boyfriend goes on without knowing, you two would be having a relationship based on lies.
We both know cheating is wrong. If you cheated you probably aren't right for each other and clearly should break up. If your relationship doesn't have honesty and respect what does it have!?!
Answer You should be asking yourself is my present boyfriend the one for me? The reason you should ask this question is because if you truly loved him and respected him, you wouldn't have cheated on him. Maybe it's time for you to end your present relationship and move on in life as you can't be that happy or you wouldn't have cheated in the first place.
hickey ? well if so dump him . if he has a relationship out of a relationship he cheated . it takes two people to do most of the sexual things
If you believe your boyfriend has never cheated before then realize people are just human and make mistakes which hopefully they learn from and if you feel he is honest then give him another chance, but make it plain to him if you catch him cheating again your relationship is over.
You should have known that he didn't love you when you found out that he cheated on you.
No, you definitely should have someone that loves and cares for you... baisically he should have never cheated on you. Also, you don't want someone that gets in trouble with the law. Don't worry the perfect guy will come along.
Dump him immediately or there will be relationship problems!
You should snog your boyfriend if you are a little deep in your relationship.
if you did cheat on your boyfriend you need to ask yourself, do you really love your boyfriend or this other guy (one you cheated on)? If you love your boyfriend you should tell him and talk to him and tell why you cheated on him. (was it something he did or said that made you feel like you needed to cheat on him) But if you don't love your boyfriend but you love the other guy then you should tell them both how you feel and break up with your current boyfriend. Talking is the best thing you can do. Decide what is best for you and be honest with him. Never lie because then you're relationship isn't real.
yes , but if i love him i will change his mind
Uhm well, dump the one you dont like and keep going on with the other relationship as if the other never happen(:
Why not stop fooling yourself? You aren't happy with the guy, or you wouldn't have cheated on him to begin with. Take a realistic look at the relationship, and at yourself.
No, of course not
he's your boyfriend you should trust him no matter what, there should be no doubts in a relationship.
First off, tell your boyfriend. Second, you need to think about if you still want to be with your boyfriend and get things straightened out between you two.
obviously that person is going to deny having a fling with your boyfriend
It is too bad you chose to cheat on your boyfriend and that is when you should have broken up the relationship. People make misakes and now that you want to break up you should choose a quiet moment alone with your boyfriend and tell him that you no longer feel the same about him, but don't add salt to his wound by telling him you cheated on him. Don't say those weary words, 'it's me not you' because no one believes that any longer. Yes, he will be hurt, but his destiny is taking him somewhere he should be and he will meet the right girl that should be in his life.
Sure, why not? I have been cheated on in every relationship I have had, "think I must have MUG printed on my forehead". Just a case of "try, try again".
If you want to but remember, you did the same to him.
Sometimes this can happen and if he's been good since then I wouldn't worry. However, because you are asking the question it appears you have a gut instinct he's up to his old tricks. I believe in listening to gut instincts. Once a person cheats on another there is a trust issue and the relationship seldom will last the test of time.