What should you do if you think your girlfrirend is cheaing?

Answer 1

The most important thing right now is to not lose your head. You only "think" she's cheating, so I'm guessing you're just speculating on little to no evidence.

Communication is a really important thing in a healthy relationship, and if you genuinely feel like you have a solid reason to ask her what's going on, then you should ask.

Try and be as rational as you can here, I mean you could be jealous, you could be assuming a lot of things, you could even be reading too heavily into things- I can't know. Try to look at this with a level head and speak the truth, both to her and yourself, about how you feel and why you feel that way.

Resist the urge to go snooping (through phones, profiles etc) because that never ends well and is something that can be used against you, let alone something incredibly creepy and a huge sign that you don't feel you can trust her!

Even if she isn't cheating on you, it sounds like she might be treating you as if she is, or you just don't trust her. Perhaps you should take that into account, I mean even if nothing is up, it doesn't sound like you're having the best of times.

Hope it works out, mate.

Answer 2

Communication is a really important thing in a healthy relationship. If you genuinely feel like you have a solid reason to ask her what's going on, then you should ask. You only "think" she's cheating, so I'm guessing you're just speculating on little to no evidence.