0
What should you do if your ex married in a rebound 5 months after your breakup and after a year of healing and the pain is semi-healed you still love each other?
Wiki User
∙ 18y ago
We all do foolish things, but now there is a 3rd person's feelings here so you and your ex must tread carefully. I personally don't think either of you have the first clue as to what love is. Most people will argue, shout, slam out of the house, stay away for weeks or months, but few rush off to get married unless they've had someone on the side all along. People that love each other can be super angry at one another, but, they go off and cool off and don't get married. Sounds like you had a real rough ride the first time around with him, so what makes you think it will be different now? If he has told his wife about what is happening and wants a divorce, then the worst is over (feel badly for the other girl) and if you both are insistant about being together at least take it slow and easy and take at least a year to get to know each other once again. My bet is, neither of you have learned much in this past year. Sorry to be crude, rude, and to the point, but you gotta feel sorry for this other woman. Whether your ex comes back to you it's obvious he's not staying with her. My ex and I have spoken only once since his marriage. This is how I know we still love each other. We're not seeing each other. He is married and he plans to hold up his vows, as far as I know. I saw a counselor after this breakup. He said that after a breakup, regardless of the person who ended the relationship, is vulnerable. He said in his many years of practice he has seen this type of rebound marriage many times. He also said, after the breakup and both are vulnerable, you can meet a manipulative person who can tap into your vulnerability. We had a 5 1/2 yr. loving relationships, the last 9 months of those yrs. were not good due to me changing my job, moving, selling my house, and going through just a lot of life changes. As much as I still love him, I don't think I would reunite. I want a healthy relationship with an emotionally healthy heart. This just has been a horrible event because if I had to do those last 9 months over again, I don't think I could do them differently. He told me during those last months of how lonely he was because I was not putting him first.
Wiki User
∙ 18y ago
Add your answer:
Earn +20 pts
Ex-boyfriend married 9 months after breakup was this made as rebound?
It could possibly be a rebound relationship if your break-up with him really upset him. However, if he was not that upset about your break-up with him, then this is just a natural attraction. Who knows, maybe he was seeing this person before you two broke-up.
If you left your ex husband a yr ago and found a new love is it still a rebound relationship?
I don't know if a year gone by can be considered a rebound, but it may have more to do with your feelings after the breakup. Rebound relationships are usually defined as dating someone while still bouncing back from losing another person. But you left your ex-husband, so chances are, a year later, you're not on the rebound anymore. But, of course, only you would know whether you were or not.
Should one wait for someone who has just came out of a breakup?
One should because that person is vulnerable and if they say they love you or something it's because your on the rebound and theyre slightly messed up (not in a bad way).
What are the chances of a rebound relationship that began 4 months after the breakup of 22 year marriage?
I think that you shouldnt worry about when your marrige was. Four months is waaay long enough until you start a new relation ship!
When was The Rebound created?
The Rebound was created in 2009.
What shock absorber motion controls the least amount of weight compression or rebound?
Rebound.
What is the definintion for there was no guarding or rebound?
What is the definition for "there was no guarding or rebound?"
What does rebound guy mean?
Recently out of a relationship & on the rebound.
Who should you rebound with?
This is a hard one. Everybody feels down and depressed. Your heart desires someone who isn't quite suitable and because that person is there for you, you feel a connection with them. You meet up with this person quite a lot, since your breakup, but deep down the blonds are not what you are looking for. All you are looking for is a bit of fun to get over your ex-girlfriend/ ex-boyfriend. Wiki suggests you should rebound with a random person.
What are rebound dates?
A rebound date is a date one goes on immediately after a long-term relationship has ended with the aim of distracting oneself from the heartache of the breakup. Furthermore, as a rebounding person is trying to fill the sudden hole in their love life, often in desperation, they might not be as discerning as usual and may make impulsive or unwise choices. This often results in their accepting the nearest available offer regardless of suitability.
When was Rebound - album - created?
Rebound - album - was created in 2009.
When was Rebound released?
Rebound was released on 07/01/2005.
