It could possibly be a rebound relationship if your break-up with him really upset him. However, if he was not that upset about your break-up with him, then this is just a natural attraction. Who knows, maybe he was seeing this person before you two broke-up.
I think that you shouldnt worry about when your marrige was. Four months is waaay long enough until you start a new relation ship!
If it was a hard breakup, I will give him three months. An easy breakup a week.
rebound
Perhaps she WAS on the rebound and got too deeply involved with the new guy too fast, but that's a moot point, now. The new guy isn't new anymore. Some rebound relationships last, sometimes for keeps. This might be one of them. If you're still carrying a torch for your ex, let her know how you feel and see how she reacts. She may not be all that happy with her current relationship and just biding her time. Who knows? Perhaps she regrets your breakup and would be willing, even eager, to get back with you. We're not fortune tellers, and the Magic Eight Ball is an unreliable source of answers. If she blows you off, I'm sorry, but time heals all wounds. But if you don't ask her, you'll never know and be nagged by I-wish-I-wouldas.
They were married for about a year and 5 months
start dating someone he knows well
yuppers, she talked about this morning. apparently they have been on the outs for 3 months.
I don't give this union much of a chance. If your friend was on the rebound, he should have waited at least six months before dating again let alone getting married. The wealthy part worries me too. The woman may have married him for his money. She might not be in love with him. Most of these types of whirlwind romances do not last. But perhaps your friend will be the exception. It is possible that she is madly in love with him. In any event, you should be supportive (although objective) rather than criticize his choices, regardless of how poor they may seem. It is, after all, his life to live.
no, their wedding was posponed
IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT TYPE OF PERSON YOU ARE. SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEBODY AND HAD A BAD BREAKUP MIGHT NOT KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE ALONE AND THEY TEND TO SEARCH FOR SOMEONE TO FILL IN THAT SPOT TO MAKE THEM FEEL SAFE. ME PERSONALLY IF I HAD BEEN IN A LONGTERM RELATIONSHIP I WOULD NOT WANT TO BE IN ANOTHER FOR SOMETIME. IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOU AND WHAT AND WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE MIGHT THINK. a day, a week, a month you should at least take three months to a year to yourself That depends. If you're just seeking someone to be with, more of a replacement for a previous relationship, it's probably rebound. If it's an attempt to get past the breakup blues, it's definitely rebound. If you've managed to get past the breakup blues, looked around for a while and found someone you actually want to be with, it's probably not rebound. There isn't some magic number like 17 days after breakup, or 3 months or 5 boyfriends. It's all about where YOU are inside your head.
It is certainly possible as there is no specific time limit when feelings subside for someone if ever.
We all do foolish things, but now there is a 3rd person's feelings here so you and your ex must tread carefully. I personally don't think either of you have the first clue as to what love is. Most people will argue, shout, slam out of the house, stay away for weeks or months, but few rush off to get married unless they've had someone on the side all along. People that love each other can be super angry at one another, but, they go off and cool off and don't get married. Sounds like you had a real rough ride the first time around with him, so what makes you think it will be different now? If he has told his wife about what is happening and wants a divorce, then the worst is over (feel badly for the other girl) and if you both are insistant about being together at least take it slow and easy and take at least a year to get to know each other once again. My bet is, neither of you have learned much in this past year. Sorry to be crude, rude, and to the point, but you gotta feel sorry for this other woman. Whether your ex comes back to you it's obvious he's not staying with her. My ex and I have spoken only once since his marriage. This is how I know we still love each other. We're not seeing each other. He is married and he plans to hold up his vows, as far as I know. I saw a counselor after this breakup. He said that after a breakup, regardless of the person who ended the relationship, is vulnerable. He said in his many years of practice he has seen this type of rebound marriage many times. He also said, after the breakup and both are vulnerable, you can meet a manipulative person who can tap into your vulnerability. We had a 5 1/2 yr. loving relationships, the last 9 months of those yrs. were not good due to me changing my job, moving, selling my house, and going through just a lot of life changes. As much as I still love him, I don't think I would reunite. I want a healthy relationship with an emotionally healthy heart. This just has been a horrible event because if I had to do those last 9 months over again, I don't think I could do them differently. He told me during those last months of how lonely he was because I was not putting him first.