if your girlfriend is getting abusive. then just end the relationship; because once a person starts to be abusive towards their significant other than they are not going to stop. It may be because she likes the feeling of power that she gets from hitting you or that she comes from an angry backround. Either way it is best to just stay away from her until she stops being abusive.
Be supportive, but remember that you can't "fix" her. Abuse can have serious effects on a person, and it can make intimacy and trust extremely difficult in a relationship. It can cause relationship strain. Don't push her, but encourage her to see a therapist, and remember to believe her. It is very rare for people to lie about something like this.
Physically abusive? Call the cops. It is no more acceptable for a woman to beat a man then it is the other way around. Or leave her. Dont put up with that. Verbally/Mentally abusive? Let her know how she makes you feel...ask her why she treats you like that. If she doesnt stop....again....leave her.
Listen to her. If she gets upset at things that seem trivial to you or seems to be on hair trigger don't take it personally (by upset I don't mean angry and abusive herself I mean more like skiddish). She probably has some trust issues so just don't ever abuse her verbally or otherwise and make sure to comfort her when she is having issues with it. Build up her self confidence in any way you can.
I know because I am that girlfriend. I feel bad for my boyfriend sometimes because he will say something innocent and I will take it all wrong and get nervous and cry and stuff and worry he is going to go mr Hyde on me...he shows me extra love and apologizes and explains what he meant in a different way. He doesn't ever joke around about getting physical and we don't roughhouse or anything. He's been very understanding. If her relationship wasn't long ago it is going to take extra work on your part, so make sure you care about her enough to commit to that or it will be frustrating for both of you and may cause it to not work out. Good luck!!
Tell police or a school counsellor
you should consider getting home schooled
First contact the police. From there, you should contact your state's department of child and family services if you are a child or if there is a child being abused in the home. If you are an adult and there are no children in the home, you can start with a local domestic violence project if you need help getting out. Or you can just leave.
The financial responsibilities of the abuser may include providing financial support for the household expenses, such as rent or mortgage payments, utilities, and groceries. The abuser may also be responsible for contributing to any repairs or maintenance needed for the home. It is important for the abused individual to establish clear boundaries and expectations regarding financial responsibilities to ensure their safety and well-being.
Then you should start fishing!!! Keep your "fishing net" ready.
If she cheated once, she will cheat again. Find someone new closer to your home.
He was at home with his family in California.
Absolutely not, while you are at home, but if she simply needs a home, and you are away, then sure. When you return, though, she may not live with you.
I say why not, she already knows. Maybe we can all 3 have fun.
Sometimes if they are sent to animal shelters.
No.
Go home or call the police so they can take you home. Anyone who helps you knowing you are a runaway can get charged with aiding a runaway. If you are abused tell the police and the CPS can help you.
You should be confronting your ex and telling him you do not like his girlfriend asking your children about your new boyfriend and if it keeps up he will only be able to see his children at your home or without his ex girlfriend.