What to do when your wife cheats on you with another woman?

Answer 1

Confront him about it, and see if you can work things out. If not, Sue for divorce on grounds of adultry. Hope there are no kids involved.

AnswerI'd start damage control and getting prepared to leave him. What caught my attention was that you said you caught him in bed....I assume he was in your bed with another woman and if he brought her to your house and slept with her in your bed, then he's really not very careful for concealing what he's doing and he probably doesn't care about the marriage anymore..

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Whoop his ass!!!!

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If it was me who caught my husband in my own bed, yes I will be shock and hurt but one thing I will do is kick him out of my house, change the lock and file for a divorce.

Answer 2

if you know for sure ask him why and tell him its better to be honest that you should tell each other everything and have an open relationship with honesty and trust and tell each other how you feel you find that with an open relationship you will not be cheating on each other because you will both tell each other everything and you both will be closer and happy

Answer 3

You have to decide what is important to you and what you want - do what is in your best interest. If you feel you can talk through this, maybe seek counselling together and forgive him then you have to discuss this with him maturely and calmly. If you feel that you cannot forgive him in anyway you may have to rethink your position and leave.

Answer 4

You take care of yourself, after you kick him out of the house for violating your vows. There are very good Marriage groups that can help you both heal, if he is willing to do the hard work.

Do not convince him to do it, stand firm, take care of yourself and do not push him. See a good counselor and then ACT. Do not wobble, go for it, it will only get worse if you wait.

God be with you.

You leave him/ OR confront him and make him tell the woman he's cheating with to stay away right in front of you.

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If it was me, I will sure talk to him and let him know what I think about his affair. I will not bother asking about the other woman because after all this woman didn't know what's going on with our marriage. He could have told her lies so she will feel bad for his situation. Then with all those talk I did, I will ask him to move out because I don't need no stress or baggage from him. I will tell him to make a choice, but I will never beg so he wouldn't leave me. You are more human than that, and deserved more respect from him. No matter how much you love him, think of yourself first..

Answer 5

First you need to make sure that you have a good evidence that you can provide in case your husband lie to you. Did a friend saw your husband with another woman? Or did you discovered something that made you realize that he is having an affair. But I think it will be best if you talk to your husband so you can tell if he is lying to you. You can do a lot by asking him. But I do hope that he is not because I know how it feels to be betrayed. Good luck..

Answer 6

You need to file for divorce, most of the time if they leave, then come back, they will do it again. you you may be hurting but you will realize you will save yourself allot of pain if you file for divorce good luck to you.

Answer 7

• Whether your wife cheats on you with another woman or another man it's cheating and to add insult to injury she has slept with another woman leaving you to guess if she is gay or bisexual or it was purely curiosity. It doesn't really matter what the reason is, she cheated on you. Communication is the key to all problems in this world so you need to sit down with your wife and start talking and listen to what she has to say. If she is bisexual then you either deal with it or you will have to leave her. If she is gay then nothing is going to change her because that is who she is, but, if she was curious she is human and made a mistake (if she admits she did.) If she has no explanation then you should walk away from the marriage because the bond of trust is broken. Marriage counseling is also an option.
  

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Answer 9

Go with your heart can you trust her again? if not then well tell her that and file for a divorce if yes then sort it out with her and give her a second chance.

Answer 10

leave her or join them.