Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
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Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
No. Let sleeping dogs lie.
Only if you know the husband will not try and kill you
If it is yes most definately.
No. You Should not ask the female who supposedly had an affair with and got pregnant by your husband who committed suicide if he knew she was pregnant before he died.
Just let it go unless you want to lose the wife's friendship also.
follow him every where..try to offer him sex..if he does not accept it...then keep trying
if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.