What should you do when your girlfriend wanted a break but when you ask her out or talk to her she doesn't want to talk to me?

Answer 1

Before you do it, try to see if she's trustworthy. For example, if she gives you a very fake reason, don't just settle to be friends. You can usually find a phony reason by evaluating it to how it fits. If it dosn't seem right, you know she's running a game on you, especially if she goes around everywhere, flirting with everyone, until she gets a new guy.

This very situation happened to me. And, I had found out that my ex wasn't trustworthy. Eventually, I had to rely on my last resort. I had to make her realize I wasn't going to accept the fake, non-appreciated, and, not to mention crappy, friendship offer, as a "Consolation prize". So, I had to do just that. And, now, I can actually feel like I don't have a 1-way-type of relationship with a girl that I would have felt strong feelings for, and, yet, she's dating others, guilt-free.

Nope. No more, of that. She ruined my trust for her, and she paid for it, by losing whatever relationship she had left with me. However, nowadays, I think I have PTSD symptoms, as, when I see any girl who has a hairstyle similar to her's, or the same hair color as my ex, I get a little bit on the self-defense mode. However, once analyzed, and it turns out to not have been her, I start to relax. However, I hope this has been an appreciated answer.

Answer 2

When someone wants a "break" it usually indicates they are second guessing the relationship, there may be someone else, may be letting you down easy, possibly does not want a commitment and/or more specifically a commitment with you. Also, when your on a break you usually take a break from one another which would mean that you don't talk or go out together etc. Unfortunately her specifically not wanting to speak with you at all would indicate that she is not interested in you at this time and it may be in your best interest to consider this over, let her be, let go and move on. You need to be realistic and see things for what they are.

Answer 3

Just let her take a break from you. Do something with your friends and come back to her in an hour or so. Then she will talk.