What do you do if your husband cheats on you and now there is a baby?

Answer 1

Does he love the other woman or was this a one-night-stand? It is painful either way, but if there was no pre-planning involved, you are more likely to get through this and still have a happy marraige. Either way, you and him should be in marraige counceling. Do it for the baby - do what it takes to keep the family together. The baby shouldn't grow up in a broken home.

Answer 2

What a fine mess your husband has gotten you into! It appears you are accepting this affair he is having with his mistress and that you've known about it for sometime. You should have confronted your husband about this long before now because he does owe his child, Child Support which will also keep him in contact with his mistress. You can either accept it, tell him other than seeing his son the affair is over with his mistress, or, you can divorce him! Lady, you really need to get your feet planted on the floor and start looking after your self worth and either get this guy to smarten up or kick his hide out the door!

Answer 3

You have basically two options. You certainly have grounds for divorce, if that is what you want. Or, you can forgive him, and ask him to be more faithful to you in the future.

Another ANSWER;

If this is the case I will certainly talk to my husband and give him option. But first I will not let him abandon this baby of his. It's his responsibilities to take care of the baby, or give his mistress some financial support, after all she was part of that affair. Then I will tell him that we need to separate so he will know what he did was very wrong. It doesn't matter if I still love him, but I will not let him think I can take him back because he open his eyes and ask for forgiveness.

I can live without him and my heart will heal one day but not having a life with him.

Answer 4

You should divorce him.