What to do im in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. He lives in south Africa i live in us. Ilove him and he loves me but im really tired of the distance and Africa fares cost too much?

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Please be careful...I live in Europe and was having a 2 year relationship with a guy in the USA,he was very nice,we were really into each other as friends,lovers ....i am 53 he 42,father of 3 ,working,etc.....When i went to the USA to be with him,he changed in 10 hours...he did let me see who he really was....i was very confused,i stayed 2 months and left,brokenhearted feelig like killing myself,i thought i was on a nightmare....He wasn't the person he was while with me on skype,chat phone at all!!!Please don't ever go over there,let him go to you,to a hotel and don't send him money,those guys do it to a lot of woman...it can cost your life...they can ruin it,i am still suffering and thank god i am still alive....when somebody warned me about it,i was so in love i waved all the red flags away,now is a year and a half after i cut myself lose from him,still suffering,having nightmares,on therapy every day is a struggle ,because is very hard to understand and cope with how these guys can fool you ,like that....Be careful...