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What to do when you have a hateful big sister?

Updated: 8/20/2019
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11y ago

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Let her go. Accept that she has psychological issues about your presence that are a) not your fault and b) about which you can do nothing to help her. It is not your fault that you are the focus of her insecurities. You are not to blame. You have a right to be here, even though she believes, deep down, that you do not, because you have upset her world which was secure and wholly hers until you came along.

Consign her to your history. She will not be part of your present or your future.

Now, get on with your life. Don't be manipulated into re-engaging to make other family members feel more comfortable. Realize that you have been forcibly engaged in an abusive relationship that has resulted in your mistreatment.

Don't "let bygones be bygones". Just get on with your life and LET HER GO.

I speak from experience. Over 50 years of bullying and abuse at the hands of a psychologically damaged older sister who never accepted my presence because of the "trouble" I caused her when I was born. She is now part of my past, and my future is so much brighter...........

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