Hmm, two against one is never fair odds ... sounds like the boys need to be separated and tasked to do things at different times. Apparently "grounding" hasn't worked, and spanking isn't allowed anymore .
You might need to seek counseling in order to learn how to deal with these issues. It could possibly be the way the problems are being addressed - I mean that yelling back and forth gets nowhere real fast - been there, done that ... absolutely zero success.
If the teens have cell phones that you pay for, cancel their accounts NOW ... mobile phone ownership is a "privilege" not a "right".
I shudder to think what it is like living in your shoes right now ... but for heaven's sake, get professional help right away.
Influence is the power or capacity to have an effect on someone or something.
You can always go to your mom\dad or any siblings ;)
Liolik answers: The Siamese fighting fish
Her mom had her and her siblings sing in the car on the way to rodeos to keep them from fighting
you are stupid! the way you act because of marijuana will influence little siblings and other family members
In Mead's theory, individuals who have a profound influence on the lives of another, such as parents or siblings, are referred to as significant others. These are the people whose interactions and feedback shape an individual's self-concept and identity during development.
I'm not sure, but I wouldn't advise it as they aren't siblings and would most likely fight. Even some siblings start fighting at some point. The pair will probably get territorial and fight.
It's a stereotype. But some people have horrible siblings, like 19 year-old drug addicts with a 3 year-old kid that they don't care about and they are constantly drinking and feeding all their stupid a$$ druggie friends with the food their mother bought.
Your experiences
The different between families and your family is that maybe they don't act well and maybe the siblings are fighting. In my family my brothers are getting into a fight and sometimes I don't really act well. What I think is between families is they act a little different to the siblings and parents.
Even hamsters that are siblings will fight because they like to live alone. Dwarf hamsters can live together though, but only if they re brought up together.
Squanto had four siblings.