Find another one.
tell him that you want to break up. honesty works best.
If you want to break up with him, be the bigger person. Try to do it although difficult. If you do not want to break up, keep it going, and then on.
because like Jason durelo said on whatcha say you were all caught up in her lust
If you really want to be with the mistress, you have to get everything in order, sit down with the wife and explain that it's not working..... then work on the relationship with the mistress and make her your girlfriend.
Often there is a lot of pressure on the mistress, especially if the man left his wife FOR the mistress. Sometimes it's too much, and the family is not accepting of the new woman. Like any relationship, it might not work.
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
just dump him or her as nicely as u can. and ask to just be friends. ANSWER: The best way to break up the relationship is just tell him or her. don't make an excuse or even wait to tell him or her. The more you linger, the more it will be hard for you to break up. The man that I married was waiting to break up with his mistress, his excuse was he doesn't want to hurt her. Even he told me that he already planning to break up with her, he still find himself to call her and be with her. For your sanity, just tell him or her..
you really cant...but talk to your other half about why you want to break up or why they want to break up and try to talk it through
no
If you want to you should.
Break up, get over them, the world isn't over yet :)
This married man do not know what he wanted to do, either he wants to keep his family together, and break up with his mistress. Or he wants to work his marriage and see if he can keep the mistress on the side. Either way, he is playing fire on both side. Some married man will know what they want if he get caught cheating, and there are some that will keep both wife and his mistress and take my words for it, he is taking you for a ride.