the alarm
tap the foot-brake lightly
Are your brake lights out - usually it's a fuse for the brake lights.
It is important to know what the warning lights mean on a dashboard. The ABS lights flash on any vehicle when there is an issue with the brake system.
emergency blinker
If you just barely touch the brake pedal the brake lights will come on but the brakes will for all intent and purpose not be applied.
check for a loose ground wire
It can be connection wires, bulbs or fuses.
If you have a plug for trailer lghts it is probably a short circuit in the socket.
Because you probably pushed either the lock or unlock button on your key fob
This is normal. The 4-way and brake light share the same bulb. The brake light overrides the 4-way when applied.
You have a faulty headlight switch. It's too much of a load on the headlight switch to run all the lights at the same time. You should run a separate light switch for the running lights.
Tail lights and break lights are different things pretty much all the time. You see, tail lights run all the time the car is on and break lights only turn on when the break is pressed. If you would like to find out which lights are the breaklights, have a friend watch the back of the car, turn it on, push the breaks a few times and see which lights flash. The lights that flash are your break lights!