If it is behind your back, then y'all have serious problems. She should be able to talk to who see wants, but if she feel that she needs to hide or sneak around then that is a sign of a larger problem in y'alls relationship. Talk to her let her know that there is nothing wrong with having friends, but y'all need to fix the problem between y'all that would make her feel as though see needed to hide it. Good Luck!
Only you can decide what is best for your situation. Confronting her would be the first step however, from there you have to decide if you are going to forgive her or not.
But first you need solid evidence just in case she isn't cheating because you need backup if you're going to confront her. That way you're justified, and no one can accuse you of being paranoid.
Choose friends that don't do that. Also, don't do things that are worth talking about behind your back. Ultimately, you can not control other people's actions, only your own.
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Personally I would first make sure that they are talking behind my back and if this is true I would go talk to them in a non-agressive manner. Trying to here what they want to say and why they talked about me in the fist place. I would also stress the fact that them talking behind my back upset me and hurt me. Then I would ask them to not do it again and please in future to come talk to me fist before saying anything about me.
The saying "stabbing you in the back" means they are talking behind your back, right? Maybe stabbing you in the front means that they are going directly to you and addressing an issue rather than talking behind your back? And if that is the case, then yes, I would think that would make a true friend
I can't tell you why your friend was talking behind your back but I can tell you that real friends don't talk behind their friend's back. You should let your friend know how you feel about this and that it is an act of betrayal.
No Way! You'll just lose your friend if you talk behind her back.
Yes. If you confront them, hopefully they will stop talking about you behind your back.
Either they are talking behind your back or it sounds to you like they are, if they are why not just ask them "hey, why are you talking about me?" I know it's not nice to have people saying things about you that aren't true... Enagee
Confront her if you are certain they are and ask them why.
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everyone is different, everyone has different boundaries with friends, so it is different for everyone. for me its lying and talking behind their back. lying to a friend is the worst thing as well as talking behind their back. never ever do this to a friend because they will find out eventually from someone and it wont end pretty.
We can say that the friend was simply back - biting you.