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When does the hurt stop after a breakup from an abuser?

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First you have to say to yourself (AND MEAN IT) that you really want the hurt to go away. Right now you are probably focusing on all the good times and discounting the damage done to you. You have to grow a backbone, immerse yourself in solid, supportive friends and family, and simply give it time. The longer you distance yourself from an abusive and unhealthy individual the more you will gain strength, and learn that you do not need him/her in your life anymore. If you backslide, it only proves what little you think of yourself.

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