When mother hates son's girlfriend?

Answer 1

Their can be genuine reasons, like your girlfriend is a junkie, or is too lazy to get a job. However, when you move through a few girlfriends, and your mother dosent like any of them, you have to come to the conclusion, that the problem is with your mother, and not the woman you are with.

Some mothers are very jealous, and see any woman that is with their son, as competition, and they have to show their authority by getting rid of this woman, the way they do this, it by first, making the woman unwelcome in their house, but at the same time, making their sons very welcome, which firstly, causes some friction between their son and the woman, and secondly gives them time alone with their son, to work on getting rid of the woman. Any information given by the son, about the girlfriend, to the mother, can be used against her, anything such as "she went to party with her work, when she got home, it was the first time i had ever seen her drunk" mother will reply "and you think that is funny, she was probably with another man, getting drunk and doing god knows what" seed is planted, get them fighting.

Best advice, cut all ties with mother, marry girlfriend, have some kids, when you have some kids, you will be forgotten, and mother will do anything to get you to bring the grandkids to the house.

Answer 2

She'd do best to be as gracious as possible and make a sincere effort to appreciate whatever qualities the young lady has to recommend her.