Grudges can be about communication, meaning someone said something that someone didn't like and so they dwelling on it. The best way to fix this kind is open communication. Just talk calmly about what happened and why it is a problem.
Grudges can also be about action. Grudges can be about one's personality. If this is the case, you still need to go to this person and tell them how you feel wronged by their grudge. If they aren't open to your explanations or reasoning or want you to become a different person, there is very little you can do.
The person holding a grudge may not want to stop, though. For example, there are a lot of people that hold a grudge against President Bush. They are so full of hate that they are basically unable to forgive him for whatever he did or said that upsets them. Sometimes, you just have to move on.
Grudge definitly ignor the person above ok. i am in the same position and i say forgive and forget.
not a better person a person with less stresses, when a grudge is held it can cause a burden on someones spirit this i where the quote comes in to play"you can forgive but not forget"
A grudge can last for as long as a person wants it to. Some people hold onto grudges for a lifetime while others decide to let the grudge go, forgive the person and move on.
They are stubborn and don't take "no" for an answer. They could also be desperate.
Bitter, selfish and intolerant. I wouldask the person how he/she would like it if someone held a grudge against them forever. Wouldn't THEY appreciate it if the other person forgave and forgot?!
you believe that you can forgive them and if you are Christian, pray about it.
An ancient grudge is something that someone has been angry about for a long time, and new mutiny would be an active rebellion against whatever it is that this person was angry about. Anger leads eventually to action.
The movie is called The Grudge because the scary blue woman and her little boy hold an eternal grudge against the boy's father (her husband) for murdering them. The Grudge is not a person. The woman herself is not The Grudge; she's the person who HAS The Grudge (along with her son), and that grudge formed a curse over the house.The scary woman from The Grudge is named Kayako Saeki. Her son, the little boy, is Toshio Saeki.
If someone is holding a grudge against you, it is not important how they will act. It's how you will act that is important. You follow the golden rule, avoid assumptions and gossip and be respectful of others. If you sense some danger from this person, report it to someone appropriate, a parent, a teacher, a manager depending on the situation. This is not to get the grudgee in trouble or for the person to take any action, just to let someone else know your situation. If you respect others, most others will respect you.
An ancient grudge is something that someone has been angry about for a long time, and new mutiny would be an active rebellion against whatever it is that this person was angry about. Anger leads eventually to action.
No church can forgive sin. No vicar, priest or whoever can forgive sin unless that sin was committed against that person. When one sins against God then only He can forgive.
it means if someone wrongs you then you can forgive them God tells us in the bible that if you do not forgive then he cannot forgive you.