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Claire's or piercing shops
You can find information on a Septum piercing at a local tattoo/piercing shop, or by asking someone who has one. There are also a variety of websites that can provide information.
You can buy armor piercing rounds for it, if you can find them.
Any body piercing studio will carry spacers.
Local tattoo and piercing shops are the primary place to go when wanting to learn more about the industrial bar piercing. Information about this piercing can also be found online on the About site.
There is a national program for piercing insurance (general liability and professional liability) at www.stratusins.com Choose the tattoo & piercing program link.
I would suggest going to the emergency room for medical assistance, if you mean a "navel piercing" then follow the written aftercare instructions provided to you by your professional body piercer. FYI no one does "Belly Piercing", if you find a place that does "Belly Piercing" that's not the place to get your "navel piercing" from. Seriously
Usually the piercer will have numbing gel which they will put on before piercing, but if you want it numbed find out before you have it done!
Any piercing hurts to some extent and being 14 doesn't give you superpowers to be immune to the pain of any piercing let alone an oral piercing. In body piercing you need to learn that if you want the piercing you will get it regardless of any discomfort you may feel. Bottom line if you want the piercing you need to be prepared to go through the piercing the swelling and the aftercare to heal the piercing. If you feel that is too much for you to deal, with then find something else to do, but don't get a piercing. It takes commitment and effort to have a great piercing, if you really want it then a little discomfort and swelling shouldn't be an issue.
There are numerous online retailers where one can find jewelry for a tongue ring piercing. One can purchase such items from 'Body Candy', 'Spencer's' and 'Body Jewelry Factory'.
Placement is a discussion you should have with your piercer when you go into have the piercing done, he/she will help you find the best location for your piercing that will suit your look.
Piercing shops. Most are joined with tattoo parlors. Got ot the APP site to find shops in your area that are certified.