Where can you find a wiring diagram for a 1995 ford escort headlight IE: fuseslinksany thing along those lines?

You can get the Hayne's Repair Manual for the car at most auto parts stores (Auto Zone, O-reiley's, etc) It should contain the diagram you need. You can also try your local Ford dealer. Depending on how friendly they are, you might be able to get a copy from them.