Abusive Relationships and Domestic Violence
Where do the abused go?
If my father is a sexual abuser will i be one too?
Only if you make the choice yourself to be an abuser. Just because your father was a sexual abuser, or (and this is an assumption on my part), you were sexually abused, does not mean that you will go on to be a sexual abuser. That is a common myth that those who were abused will go on to be abusers. That is simply not true. Most people that were abused never go on to be abusers. It is true that about 40% abusers were themselves abused, but that doesn't mean that all who were abused are abusers.