Where is the best place to meet an American transsexual?

Answer 1

There really isn't. A transsexual woman is a woman born wrongly into a male body, and they hate that body, and nearly every genuine MtF transsexual person will eventually go on to get the surgery to stop being a transsexual (FtM TS guys have less satisfactory options and often only get up to 2/3 of their procedures). That is the goal of the transition, to stop having transsexualism and to "cure" it if you will. That is not the same as recreational MtF transgenderism where healthy men choose to vary their gender and create difference where it previously never existed, or only existed in subtle amounts.

So if a person genuinely has transsexualism, they will want their original parts gone and want to blend into the world of cisgender people, and they won't want others to know. It is not about shame, but about doing what is natural and living in the *same* level of privilege that everyone born in the correct gender has. Just because some "birth defect" stole things from you, it doesn't mean society has a right to compound that damage, create double standards for you, and deprive you of your natural needs that are the same as others of your corrected gender.

Now, what you might be looking for are male-born nonop transgender persons. The men in drag with their penises exposed in pornographic magazines rarely have transsexualism. The pornographic industry misuses the term transsexual to refer to some fictional "third gender" and blurs gender lines, when that has nothing to do with diagnosed transsexualism. Since what you are looking for are more likely to be gay men who dress in drag, the best place to look would be in gay clubs.