Who is to blame for the problems in your life?

Answer 1

Ourselves.. Because we look for a magic pill to solve our problems. The understanding of the problems lies it's dissolution..

AnswerYou. Never blame others for your own problems. I believe people have bad luck sometimes, but it is always up to you to change the outcome. AnswerMan always leaned upon their own understandings instead of looking at how the out come my affect others. Each action we do, plays a huge part in our life and it's up to us if we are willing to make the right changes. answerthere can be more than one answer here. Satan, you, and God. Satan always wants to hurt you, especially if you don't belong to him, You can make bad decisions and hurt yourself, God allows things to come your way to build your character. If you invite Jesus to be Lord of your life, nothing will ever happen to you without it getting by God first, and if it does, you can be sure some how, some way , it is for your good. Another PerspectiveAsking who is to blame is the wrong question. It doesn't matter. What matters is what you are going to do about the problems in your life... how you are going to face them and overcome them. Problems come to everyone... some we can avoid and some we can't, but the point is, we need to face those problems, learn from them, and improve our lives because of them. If we stand around arguing about whose fault it is, we are letting them control us, rather than the other way around.

Yet Another Prospective...

Blame is like trying to back out of an accident after it happens. You cannot change the past. You CAN choose the future. You can spend your time after the accident making things worse by ruminating and trying to recreate the past. Or you can spend the time trying to make what happens next...better. You do this by replacing blame with taking responsibility. Unless you are trying to win a court lawsuit, blame is not constructive, it is really just drama and ego defense in action.

My philosophy is this: "Everything that happens to me in my life is the result of some decision (big or small) that Imade at some point along the way, that ultimately affected the outcome." Think about it...

AnswerSometimes you just have to let go .. and look up , and see that the order of things in this world is still growing like a little child. Another AnswerI think you should be asking yourself that because sooner or later you're going to come to the conclusion that everybody fears to hear and learn... It's all your fault. you choose the path you take (of course unless you live with your demanding parents. but even then you can choose your path). People ask this question to try to relieve themselves of the responsibility because they cant handle it.... but rarely there is someone else that is At Fault, but if you let them continue then it will only be your own fault. As i see it people may think God or The Devil have something to do with this... but they don't. God watches over you and is there when you need to talk. the devil eggs you on but doesn't force you to do anything, he lies and tells you things to TRY to make you go to the bad path. but you make the decisions and if you let the devil control you it means you're weak and need time. Just think about it somewhat like the poem "the road not taken" by Robert Frost:TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim,

Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.

And you can make a difference... a difference for good. and not committing anything bad so you wont have to blame anyone else for things you choose and remember: "Don't regret something that once made you laugh" .... or smile, love, etc, etc

Answer 2

Assigning blame does not often lead to solutions. It is more productive to focus on understanding the root causes of problems and taking steps to address them. Personal accountability and proactive problem-solving can lead to positive changes in your life.