I am not a guy, but my guess would be that they want to be certain that the break up is understood to be final. If he was the one to break up, or if he did something unforgiveable, then there may be some guilt involved in ending the relationship. In any case, forgiveness, separating from the group he is in and moving on in life is the way to go. He is gone, let him be.
Immature guys might make fun of you after a break up. If that's the case, then forget about it and don't take it personally. Brush it off and show yourself to be too self-confident to care what he has to say about you.
Not all guys are mean to their girlfriends. If you're involved with a "mean" or abusive guy, my advice is to drop him fast. Sometimes guys change, but often they don't. And the longer you stay with an abusive person, the worse it will affect you. Think about the future: In a year or two from now, do you still want to be with a guy who treats you badly?
Probably since they can't get anyone else who is better. Guys have egos just like us girls. When you break up with them it takes a toll on their masculinity and what they could have showed off when you were with him. Now he has lost both so he is pissed at you of course. Also, he is a jerk and that's why you broke up with him to begin with. He thinks if you think he is mad at you that will make you want to get back with him. He wants you to be angry right back. Just don't let him have that power or you will end up in the sack with him again. Just ignore him cold and stay far away!
Contrary to popular belief, men DO have feelings. men just don't like to show it. To try and hide what their actually feeling after a break-up, men will often become jerks to try and fill the tough guy role and not seem hurt by the breakup. All alone at their house, they're crying and eating ice cream by the bucket full just like everyone else.
He is very mad at her for breaking up with her
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As my fellow contributor says: The man is very mad and upset from her breaking off the relationship. After a while he will cool down and forget about it.
they see that you are doing good without them or that you don't need him and you are independent. he probably is just not doing good without you and you are doing awesome without him.
Because they are a-holes!!!!!!!!!!!!
Where I come from they are pretty blunt about it.
the reason why boys break up with girls because boys think that girls cant handle them even thought hard times girl have been there and i know thatXavier likes me but i like him so much oh sorry but as i was saying and boys think that the girls are not to pretty enough but boys r stupid because if we not pretty enough then why they want to date us they some stupid boys gosh that's mi answer
to me it means that if you break up with him he has some one else to run to
role play on growing up as boys and girls
Either one, it matters who is more bored of the other person or wants another GF/BF.
In Powerpuff girls z, they never break up.
It means that they're treading dangerous waters and either need to stop liking other girls or break up with their current girlfriend. boys like to have their cake and eat it too. a lot of girls are like this too.
Boys
Usually, boys "break up" with girlfriends for a reason. Search deep for an answer. If you really don't know, ask him. However, if he refuses to answer or says "I just don't like you", he is not for you.
Girls usually already know what there looking when they say they are ready for a steady relationship, while the boys are still experimenting. These girls are looking for love and possibly admiration and attention. That said Girls invest more of their emotions in a (intimate) relationship then boys do before the age of 30. As age 30 creeps closer the boys start thinking of settling down.
maybe some girls are just tired or the heartache that comes with a relationship. they dont want to put themselves through another break up or they have been around a certain group of boys that made their view of them not good.