Why do girls stick to their decisions once they make up their minds and why can't you change girls' minds so that they can just see where you are coming from and why do little things matter to them?

Answer 1

Icky, aren't we women just a piece of work! LOL I must admit, even as a woman, I find them complicated myself. We go through more hormonal issues and we are stronger than we look.

Most women really take relationships very seriously and they usually give their all. If the man doesn't reciprocate and give nothing back, she may mention it to him, but, if he doesn't listen and doesn't treat her well (never listens to her, never thinks she has anything important to say, he considers her brainless, and is just good for a squeak between the sheets) then you have one hot rock in your hand. Any woman worth their salt will refuse to put up with it.

Also, in this modern society women are beginning to know more and more just how strong and capable they are and right now the biggest conflict between men and women is going on. Women are not taking back seats to men in any area of life and the war is on. Guess what? There are more women on the planet than men. Run! LOL

Men generally are lousy communicators and they usually get plenty of chances to express themselves, but don't. Here is an example:

Last night my husband came home from work. We sit down to have a cup of tea and talk over our day. I asked him how work was going and he said A-OK. OK, I take it for that. After, we went to the store and unfortunately I was a little longer than anticipated, but no big deal. I came out to the car and was really stunned when my husband snapped, "What took you so long!" Of course I was annoyed and said, "Well, I just love grocery shopping, but just to irritate you I decided to lay prone in the middle of the aisle!" Yes, I was sarcastic, but only because I should have never been talked too in that manner. The fight was on! Today when he got home I put my foot down and said, "Give! Something isn't right because you seldom ever talk to me like this." He finally opened up and said, "Had a hard day at work yesterday, and, in fact, today. It's getting me down." Now my question to you is, why is it men have such a problem with expressing how they feel? If men would open up more to their women half the problems would be solved. Hey, news flash ... sometimes us women have some good ideas as how to fix a problem you guys might have.

What men consider "little things" as far as what women feel really aren't. Men are suppose to be the strong, silent type, but if it weren't for women, there would no family ties, social events, children brought up healthy, loved and safe. Most women have "instincts" and that is what the world goes around on no matter how much men think they own the world.

No, I'm not a feminist at all, but the truth is the truth.

Once you can understand women can be gentle, loving, caring, nurturing and extremely strong individuals you'll do OK. NEVER underestimate a woman!

Good luckMarcy

AnswerThere are two sayings that come to mind:Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.AND:No longer an anger abide (somin like that) when love has turned to hate. AnswerIf some girls take there relation serious then why don't they give there boyfriends a chance to show the girl that they arent the type of person they probly thought.those type of girls take little things seriously cause they don't want there relation to go bad at all.If girls who want to be serious about relations should give boys a chance to show them that they can make them happy.some of there decision are wrong,sure i kinda admit girls are pretty smart and strong with there choices but not all there choices are right."everyone deserves a chance".If she is smart then she should understand that you both like each and she should give you a chance to shine again.now if she keeps thinking about the bad stuff that happen during the relation she might say stuff like"i don't want to go through that pain again"girls shoudlnt think about stuff like that cause it'll keep them farther away.sure its probly gonna hurt them a little thinking about it,but they should also think abot the good things that happen.its better to have love and happiness back with a little sadness,then to only think about pain and sadness.girls like that should give boys a chance to redeem and i bet decisions like that r worth trying."love isn't what starts a relation,its what you think and feel about that person that binds it together" that's what i have to say about girls who think they there decisions are right,and let me say that those girls are to weak to think carefully and to make sure that there decision is right.us boys are just as strong as them with relations and we take it justas serious as girls do.we like to make things right as well.So if we keep listening to them they'll never understand how we feel about a relation.Right now im trying to get my girl back.She says she LIKES me but she doesn't want to start relation yet cause she wants a break.but later on she said she was confused about the whole thing and she still not sure what she did was right or wrong.see not all girls know everything we are all equal.Now im waiting until she finnaly relizes what she did was right or wrong.if my girlfriend is smart and is right about things then she should THINK carefully and tell me that what she did was RIGHT.Some girls change there minds on there decisions,but it takes time.Dont think the reason is that she found another guy cause if she says se likes you then trust her and wait till she finds out.Dont give up who knows what might happen in the future. goodluck,Rob