This and its obverse are probably the world's oldest questions; in their way, sort of related to the world's oldest profession. And there still is no real answer. I will give you my opinion. I have had enough men of interest to have created a wall of jealousy throughout too many of my closest friends and relations, so my opinion may be somewhat valid. It took me years to realize what I now believe. Most women are certain there is nothing beyond physical attractiveness that will draw men to them. I have been fairly attractive in my life--although never thin--so, I suppose, this is part of the equation. What constitutes physical attractiveness, however, is an interesting question in itself. Since different cultures value different qualities, one cannot with any assurance believe this is biologically based. Most of my paramours would describe me, the person I suppose I know best, as being constructed entirely of secondary sex characteristics, so I suppose that would be my calling card. But, perhaps, not my drawing card. After all these years and a self-concept that often fell right into whatever lies beneath the sewer, my best guess is that what draws men to women is self-confidence. And perhaps femininity, and perhaps having some sort of je ne sais quoi, some defining difference. Do all of these things need to be real? Only partly, I think. What passed for self-confidence with me was a painful shyness that people misinterpreted as stand-offishness. Why anyone would want someone who they thought might condescend to them I leave to a better guesser than myself. Sans time and space constraints I could give you a decent analysis, but this is neither the space nor the time for that. Personally, I would say something that may sound silly. Put your best feet forward and believe in yourself. Or do as my mother used to say: Act as if. This, I am almost positive, being your best self and having a belief in that best self is what is most attractive to people in general.
Some women are attracted to the physical appearance of strong and healthy looking men.
everyone has different things they are attracted to and some men like women to look like men.
No. Lesbians are women who are attracted to other women. Women do not become (or grow to be) men, unless they undergo substantial surgery.
What causes a man to be attracted to a square jaw woman is simply personal taste. Men have different things they are attracted to and some men find women with a square jaw appealing. It's no different than men who are attracted to women with certain hair or eye colors.
Some men like to play "hard to get". Some men are afriad to talk to someone they're attracted to. Some avoid in light of rejection. Just depends on who you are.
Physically, men are attracted to women because they have curves. A man might not realize it, but he is attracted to a woman's curves because this shows that the woman is capable of carrying a child which gives men all the more reason to become attracted to and mate with a woman. Another reason is testosterone, male hormones. This hormone makes massive changes to the way a man thinks. When a man is with a woman, his brain goes "She is a mate, she is able to carry a child, she is smaller, you must protect her, she will comfort you and the child..." It is automatically the mans job to to protect a woman. Women also tend to take care of men, so this is another reason why men are attracted to women. They protect the woman in exchange for her "tender lovin' care".
some of my friends say its because they look older and a lot of women like older men
Its probably because they were attracted to their ex in some way so there still attracted to women like that.
Possible some types of pheromones.
No. By definition, straight women are only attracted to men.
English men are attracted to anything with a heartbeat.
same reason men have penises and women dont, men are attracted to boobs, women are attracted to penises.