She doesn't. She is not responsible to keep the vows. He should just have the guts to confront his wife and admit HE made the mistake.
Hell NO! The wife should be thanking you! You did her a favour... if it wasn't u it would have been someone else! ANSWER: If I am the mistress would I apologize to his family especially the wife, heck no. I don't know the wife, all I know is what my married lover told me about her. And why do I, if it wasn't me who started it all. My only mistakes is by not saying no to my married lover. Now why is it when marriage is been broken, the first person who got blame is the other woman, especially the wife. It doesn't matter what the mistress did, the husband is the one that needs to explain period. There are some mistress who is pain in the butt, but do remember she also got hurt by your husband.
You have this situation a little backward. First off your husband should not be having an affair and you should demand he break it off entirely or you are heading for divorce court. There is no need to have anything to do with his mistress and why should you care if she apologizes or not. It's time you sat up and started to fly right and ask your husband if he even wants to save the marriage and forget the mistresses part in this.
Women by nature are jealous of the other woman so they have a tendency to blame the mistress in the affair and even when the mistress harasses the wife, but it is the husband in this case that should stop the harassment because he started it all. Get tough with the husband and ignore the mistress; the ball is in his court.
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
l think that the mistress's boyfriend will be pretty upset ANSWER: I will say, what a good KARMA. He taste his own medicine for betraying his wife. Funny thing is the man that I married who had an affair with the woman he met on a dating site, also has a boyfriend and my loving husband didn't know about. I found out this story when this woman started to annoyed me on the phone. I asked her if the man I married knew about it, she said no because he never bother asking and she told me that my loving husband only wanted friendship from her. Ditto!! so I guess his mistress has a point. My husband wanted close friendship with her including benefits, so it's felt wonderful to know then that he protected his mistress to my face but at the same time his mistress boyfriend is sharing her to my husband. Sweet revenge really. And yes icing in the cake my husband's mistress has STD that she caught from her real boyfriend and guess what my husband wasn't using protection..... there you go..
You could ask her directly about her involvement with your husband and confront her about her actions. It may also be important to ask about her intentions and seek clarity on the situation before deciding on how to move forward.
Since your husband got the mistress pregnant this is good grounds for divorce. Your husband is entirely responsible for paying child support and this is called being responsible for your own actions. Your husband is fully to blame as he either started the affair or he could have said no to the woman. Therefore, the mistress who is pregnant has every right to keep her child. Your husband has created a great deal of pain for you or any children involved in your family; he lied and disrupted your lives and cost the most precious thing of all ... trust in each other. Most people who cheat will do it again.
mistress can be a big ruiner to good relationships. ANSWER: Yes a mistress is part of a broken family between man and his wife. Unfortunately it's not all the mistress ( sorry I am a wife), fault and start the messing around but the married man is. Reality check here, married men are the one that search or look for other person we called mistress. Some mistress are single, some are married but still become the other woman. Because we love our husband most of us will blame the other woman, for ruining our safe, normal, and comfortable life. It is wrong because its our husband who started all. It's our husband that meet the other woman, hide the relationship, and yes having a second life away from us. The only thing we can say to those women who are having an affair to a married men is learn to say no._" No thank you, your are married " and I deserve to meet a single man.
Quite simple love, she's probably scared and feeling awkward because she didn't realize and expect that you know or even have her cell number. Now all hell break loose, ( excuse my language) and I bet that your husband probably know already what you have done. If he comes home, be calm act like nothing is going on, then wait if his going to talk to you or not. Just know that his mistress already told your husband what you sent to her. Don't let him manipulate you by telling you that he made a mistakes. Good luck..
Marylin Skinner and her husband started it.
It depend to how long and how it started, but yes she needs to confess to this woman. Especially if this woman doesn't know what's going on. And what about the cheating wife's husband, what did he do to be betrayed by her. If the cheating wife and the cheating husband are having a wonderful time hiding their affair, do remember what goes around comes around.
They were both. They started out as axis, but then moved to allied after the axis betrayed them.