Why do older men like young boys?

Answer 1

When I was in elementary school and even into junior high, I found myself wanting to have an older man in my life. There was nothing wrong with my parents or my home life. I grew up in a stable middle class household, where all the I's were dotted and T's had been crossed.

If I look back at my motivations for wanting to be with an older man. They were simple yet confusing. Something about them called to me. The need to be held, cuddled and the want to have someone more experienced help me explore the "me" that was inside. What better way to help understand my emotions, physical nature and mentality than an old version of myself, an older man?

I think in simple form, certain boys want to be loved. Not like a parent love's a child, but rather like a reader might cherrish a good book. They wan't to know that they are important and have a place in the hearts other people, not just family and friends.

I also believe that there is a level of phallic idolization that comes into play. Some boys will see an older man in a public shower, like at a swimming pool or the YMCA, and think how gross! Yet, others will see a man's larger adult genitals and be facinated. A need to explore that facination grows and the dream of being intimate with and old man begins to take hold in the minds. Some get the chance to explore it. Often time's in a wholesome and tender way. For other's, it stays a dream and a fantasy.

I hope that helps answer the question.

Answer 2

There are many answers to this question.

1. Because boys represent themselves ,at a young age, and they are trying to recapture lost childhood.

2. Because boys' lack of adult characteristics makes them less obviously masculine.

3. Because their personal characteristics (e.g. smooth skin, childish facial appearance) are erogenous to the older man.

4. In some depraved cases, because older men can more easily prey on people younger and more vulnerable. Such cases may involve sexual interference, rape or violence.

5. Occasionally, boys prefer older men, and actively encourage their attentions.

There are doubtless many other reasons. cause older men are pervs