Why do the girls that you have a crush on never notice you even when you try and the girls you don't find attractive are attracted to you?

Answer 1

It's not that they don't notice you, maybe your just not letting them know that your interested in them. So just step up and talk to them and flirt! I don't know what to say about the unattractive girls because that happens to me also. All you can do is be nice to them, after all they must have a good reason for liking you. Murphy's Law. Go out with the girls that are attracted to you and the girls you have a crush on will begin to notice you. It is quite possible the girls ignoring you are not worth your time. If they cannot see the attractive person you are, inside as well as outside, they are not worth bothering with. However, sometimes those unattractive girls blossom and if you were not there when they looked at you, they will not be there when you are looking at them! You are always going to have someone you don't find attractive liking you. The thing is that you might not like them now but you might love them later. Just because some snotty girl doesn't like you doesn't mean that you have to crawl into a little ball and die because that isn't the answer. There are plenty of fish in the sea and there might be a possibility that the girl is playing hard to get and she does like you she just doesn't want to let on that she does notice you because she has nothing to say yet. I think its really naive (answers above me) to say that a girl is snotty or horrible because she simply doesn't like you. She is a person with feelings too. You maybe the greatest hottest coolest person in the world and she still may not like you. This doesn't make her a bad person. It's called chemistry. Anyway, answering your question, you will one day find a person you like like you back. It takes time..you have to be patient .. just be yourself and she will come..however, don't settle for these other girls you don't like just because you think you need a girlfriend or you want to fit in or whatever the reason is. A heart should be involved in a relationship..its not a relationship otherwise!So there is no reason why the girls you like don't like you back. Its nature. They don't have to like you just like you don't like the girls who like you. Boy, do you ever make me go back with my memories of being younger (and I'm a whole lot older than you!) I can remember really liking guys that didn't seem interested in me and the guys that liked me I didn't care for. It's all about hormones and they are raging when younger. There is so much of life for a young person to experience and places to go and see that it's tough to sometimes settle for one guy or girl. Life changes like the seasons of the year, but you can bet one day you'll meet that special person you'll spend the rest of your life with. It doesn't matter what generation it is we all have had to go through some of that during our lives. the Don't worry about it so much because it's normal. These last 2 answers are right. Don't worry, eventually the girls you like will fall for you, but they would have the same effect on you as the girls who like you do. And the girls who like you will become more beautiful and if you don't date one now you will lose that chance. Experiment. Live. Love. Learn.