Why do women cause countless conflicts in a relationship and then pretend they are victims of Abuse considering it was she who caused the conflict and the consequences?

Answer 1

Whoa, slow down there on the blame game. While some people (not just women) may be really good at picking fights and causing conflict, some people (not just men) simply cannot stop themselves from responding in violent anger. But yes, it's not all that uncommon for abused women to not only allow the abuse, but to egg it on. Some women actually subconsciously "enjoy" the attention and sympathy they might receive from being a victim. But, and here's where you're definitely off the mark, any person who is hit, slapped, pushed, pulled, tossed, pinched, bitten...is being physically abused and they are not pretending to be abused, despite the fact that they may have started the initial argument. Saying that women "pretend they are victims of abuse considerating it was she who caused the conflict and the consequences" is no different from saying that a defiant child caused a conflict with an angry parent by smarting off and then caused the consequence of being smacked around. Abuse is abuse. All people -- women, men and children -- deserve the freedom to live without fear of being brutally punished for saying or doing the wrong thing.