Why do you feel insecure about your body when your boyfriend has a picture of a glamour model as his phone wallpaper?

Answer 1

Men look at beautiful women. That's just a fact. Having a picture as his phone wallpaper is completely harmless. When we're feeling a little "down" about ourselves, knowing that he gets a look at someone who makes her living being beautiful just by picking up his phone can make us feel even more insecure but it shouldn't...it's exactly the same as seeing beautiful women in a magazine or having a picture of Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston on his locker door. You should ignore it, get a picture of a great looking man that you can put on your cell phone, and realize that if he were being secretive or deceptive, you may have something to worry about. But he's not...the cell phone is there for him and you see it, too. Nothing awful about that at all. You should start working on loving yourself, loving your body, feeling sexy and desirable around your boyfriend, and forget about the fact that he's a man appreciating the look of a beautiful woman. He's with you; he obviously thinks you're beautiful, too. Don't lose track of that. Beauty isn't just physical; it's the whole package and you should feel completely secure with your overall beauty including your personality, confidence, acceptance, and warmth.