Why do you keep having dreams about your ex boyfriend when you love somonelse?

Answer 1

I may not be right but for me dreams come from the sub-concious and are a form of mental escape or release. You can love your spouse or partner, but if you had a long time with your ex or short but intense then it just natural that there be episodes in your life that you'll dream about him. There could be thing you have'nt reconsiled with your ex relationship that you put it away but comes out in your sub-consious thoughts (dreams) and that has nothing to do with your current relationship unless there's some kind of conflict that makes you compare and then the dreams are for that reason. Don't make a big deal out of it because something that can be just an episode or momentanious can then become a consious problem caused by constant questioning over this. Think of it this way it could well also be constant dreams about lets say a old very special friend and maybe you dream about her but since it's just a friend you don't give it much thought, therefore the dreams go away, but the fact that it's your ex makes something little into the focus of doubt or questions. Don't let your dreams make you doubt yourself, let alone question yourself. "ITS JUST A DREAM". Good luck.